On That College Tip #4

You're either entering your Junior or Senior year of high school, or you're a freshman in college. Some people ease right into the college groove.... others need a little help. We've asked college upperclassmen and graduates to share some advice, so throughout the year, we'll share tips from two people a week. Our second tip is coming from: Lindsay

Easy hair tips: Don't be afraid to invest in a few wigs. Sometimes it's hard to get your hair to act right when you're in between whatever process is a part of your normal routine. 

Stress relievers: Boxing. This was one of my favorites ways to relieve stress during college and when I was enlisted. Punching things is therapeutic for obvious reasons. Any type of exercise really, but with boxing, you can focus your frustrations on something. Find whatever works for you because mismanagement of stress can really be a detriment to your mental and physical health.

Lindsay

Junior

What's in the Phytospecific Relaxer??

This is the ingredient list for the Phytospecific Relaxer. Just the straightening cream though because I really do not feel like doing everything that comes in that box because it's entirely too much going on in there. They say it's "non-chemical" and "odorless" but one of the ingredients says "fragrance" and there are "carefully selected molecules from egg and soya" so..........? which one is it?

The DO-NOT'S of the relaxer are:

That's crazy to me. A lot of people think it's so much work to use/make natural products, and honestly whether you're relaxed or natural, using natural products will make and keep your hair healthy, and it'll be worth the effort. Some of these ingredients are used in your cleaning products, and parts of some of them are used to clean rust off metal.... and this is what you're putting into your hair. Anyway. I'm not going to tell you to not use anything, but at the end of the day, there's alternatives for everything. Even relaxers. Yea... But send me a message and tell me what you think about this!

Water <  we don't need to explain that.

Mineral Oil: it's not terrible, but it's not the best. it's a lubricant and forms an occlusive film on hair. That means it doesn't let moisture (water) go in or out of our hair. basically it's a film on your hair. you can't just use any or everything to wash it off because it's a "water-hater"

Emulsifying Wax NF: it's four ingredients:

-Cetearyl Alcohol (a mixture of fatty alcohols),

-PEG-150 Stearate (PEG= polyethylene glycol. used in making cleansers to dissolve oil and grease as well as thicken products. a lot of times used in caustic spray-on oven cleaners. caustic = "able to burn or corrode organic tissue by chemical action." Stearate is a fatty acid. a waxy solid. stearate is derived from the Greek word 'stear' meaning tallow, which is a rendered form of beef or mutton fat and sometimes lard.)

-Polysorbate 60 (used to help "grow hair" by breaking up sebum. we need sebum because its a natural oil. its only potentially harmful to hair when our body creates too much of it; but if that happens, that's why we wash our hair..)

-and Steareth-20. (It mirrors the properties of cetyl alcohol while promoting the thickening features of stearyl alcohol.)

Propylene Glycol: It is widely used as a moisture-carrying ingredient in place of glycerine because it is cheaper and more readily absorbed through the skin. It is related to polyethylene glycol (PEG) and is known to cause contact dermatitis even at very low concentrations. It is recognized as a neurotoxin by the US National Institute for Occupational Health and Safety, and it may cause kidney damage. The Material Safety Data Sheet for propylene glycol warns workers handling this chemical to avoid skin contact. [X]

Egg Extract: see egg oil Lanolin is the smelly pale-yellow natural oil found on sheep's wool. As a waste product in wool processing, it's also known as wool oil, wool wax, wool fat, or wool grease. It's a natural water repellant.

Steareth-100: a cleansing agent and solubilizing agent. A waxy compound

PEG-75 Lanolin:  Lanolin is the smelly pale-yellow natural oil found on sheep's wool. As a waste product in wool processing, it's also known as wool oil, wool wax, wool fat, or wool grease. It's a natural water repellant.

Disodium Cocoamphodiacetate: a synthetic amphoteric surfactant routinely used in personal care products. amphoteric is a molecule or ion that can react as an acid as well as a base

Oleth-20: Organic perfume stabilizer, derived from unsaturated fatty acids. an emulsifier.

Cetearyl Alcohol: a mixture of fatty alcohols, consisting predominantly of cetyl and stearyl alcohols and is classified as a fatty alcohol. 

PEG-10 Rapeseed Sterol:  PEG + the fatty acid component of the rapeseed plant. Used as a surfactant and to help make products soluble.

Hydrolyzed Soy Protein:   The extraction process of hydrolysis involves boiling in a vat of acid (e.g., sulfuric acid) and then neutralizing the solution with a caustic soda. The resultant sludge is scraped off the top and allowed to dry. In addition to soy protein it contains free-form excitotoxic amino acids (e.g., MSG) and other potentially harmful chemicals including cancer-causing chemicals in many cases. A newer method of hydrolysis involves the use of bacteria by itself or in addition to the chemical processes described above. There is a possibility that genetically-manipulated bacteria may be used.

In almost all cases, hydrolyzed soy protein contains a significant amount of genetically-manipulated soy. The hydrolyzed protein products currently added to foods should be considered a detriment to one's health. There are much healthier sources of soy protein and soy nutrients. [X]

Fragrance

Egg Oil: some special process they do to extract natural oils from hen eggs. they used to do it using heat, but now the process is done using hexane or ethanol. 

(hexane is a colorless, significant part of gasoline with a gasoline-like odor. relatively safe when not exposed to it a lot of it.)

(ethanol is also called ethyl alcohol, pure alcohol, grain alcohol, or drinking alcohol. it's a volatile, flammable, colorless liquid) 

- Lauren

On The College Tip #3

You're either entering your Junior or Senior year of high school, or you're a freshman in college. Some people ease right into the college groove.... others need a little help. We've asked college upperclassmen and graduates to share some advice, so throughout the year, we'll share tips from two people a week. Our second tip is coming from: Teka

Dorm Food (if you have a fridge and/or microwave):
I always had fruit snacks, real fruit (like bananas and apples), peanut butter, chips/pretzels, red bull, bottles of water, and bread. And of course ramen. Anything that's quick and easy for class, studying, late-night-after-the-club-cravings and just hanging out in general.
And please remember to TAKE YOUR VITAMINS! They make a world of a difference in regards to endurance, studying, and weight gain.
Oh, and every college student should have B-12. It metabolizes the food you eat into energy!!!

Extracurricular Activities:
Get involved with the association affiliated with your major!!! Especially if it's one you have to be invited into (meet the criteria, of course). That's a must and looks great on your résumé (shows commitment to your major/profession). Also, have fun at the club/organization fair freshman year. Mingle. Pick up brochures and cards. Network and talk to an array of people. This is your chance to explore what you do and don't like because more than likely the club you're most involved with in college will either (a) end up giving you some of the best friends you've known and/or (b) end up being a career or hobby your very dedicated to when you graduate.

Hair Tips:
Find out who braids on campus or learn to braid your own hair. Protective styles are your friend!!! If you rather not braid or weave your hair, be sure to perfect styles with minimal manipulation because trust me, after late nights of studying or partying or hanging out, you're not going to want to have to do a lot to your hair in the AM. Also, I loved comparing and sharing products with my friends. We helped each other with our hair and even developed some staple products and regimens.
Now, the more acclimated to your schedule and the more you perfect your time management, your hair will become a part of your identity and walking statement!

Stress Relief:
Talk to someone! You'd be surprised how much better you feel after venting. It's great to have that friend that always listens, but also make sure you know where your school's counseling services are located. They're available to help and provide resources if you feel overwhelmed. Other ways to relieve stress can be working out, writing, taking time for yourself to be pampered or shop (within your budget!), or even taking a nap! Sleep helps.

Hope these tips help, and congratulations on beginning the BEST YEARS OF YOUR LIFE!

Teka, C/O 2012 from CNU

Have some tips to share or questions? email untouchmyhair@gmail.com

On That College Tip #2

You're either entering your Junior or Senior year of high school, or you're a freshman in college. Some people ease right into the college groove.... others need a little help. We've asked college upperclassmen and graduates to share some advice, so throughout the year, we'll share tips from two people a week. Our second tip is coming from: Alex

- Incoming freshman: don't be intimidated. You'll probably remember every horror story about "fresh meat" you've ever heard but it's really not that horrific. There are plenty of upperclassman, professors and staff that are happy to ease you into this new environment. With that said, be careful. There are freshman who fly out of the proverbial nest and straight into the lion's den. It's easy to get caught up in the freedom and become involved with some damaging situations and people.So have fun but don't lose sight of why you're in college. 

- Studying/test taking: study groups are your best friend. Pick out a few students in the front and acquaint yourself with them (this also works in case you have any questions about class). If you have difficulty focusing when studying, it helps to have people around who will keep you on track. Some professors give tests online so be on top of the dates and times.

- Scholarships: be open to asking the staff for help. Majority of them are more than happy to help with finding information on scholarships and other opportunities. Also, check your e-mail daily. You'll regularly receive information on scholarships so you don't want to miss out on any potential scholarships.

- Dorm food: the struggle is real. That's about as good as I can sum it up. Everyone I knew loaded up on the regular snacks (crackers, chips, bread, candy) and some frozen dinners for the fridge (small fridges) but spent most of their time at the local Cook Out or on campus restaurants. Whatever you do, though, keep any open food carefully sealed and locked up. Roaches will try to get the jump on you (so will greedy roommates).

- Dating: like I said before, don't lose sight of why you're in college. College relationships can be new and exciting but they're not drastically different from high school. Drama comes along with the territory especially if everyone and their mamas are involved. And it can get disheartening if everyone seems to be linking up around you and you're single but that can work in your favor. I've learned that the less you're invested in someone, the more you'll be able to focus on you and your education.

- Extracurricular activities: now is the time to put yourself out there. Whether it's volunteering, writing for the newspaper or getting involved in different clubs, extracurricular activities can only help you. People will want to see whether you're involved on campus when looking over resumes. Don't do too much, though, to the point where you're burned out. Find a few you can vibe with and commit. If you don't like them, you can always branch out.

- Hair tips: carry a hair tie and some smoothing creme. Those will come in handy on hot and humid days during walks between classes. If you straighten your hair sometimes, it helps to go natural on those days and rainy days. Trying to fight the elements will result in you using the flat iron several times in a few hours. 

- Stress relievers: different techniques work on different personalities. Whether that's meditation, exercise, reading a book, etc. you have to find what works for you. I will say, if that stress reaches a level where you're depressed or contemplating hurting yourself, please, please, please go to the health clinic. From personal experience, freshman year can wear you out quickly especially if you're dealing with issues outside of college. Even if you don't think you're depressed, seeing a counselor at least once can be a good stress reliever. 

- Extra tips: 1) Depending on how old your dorm is, always keep a bottle of insect spray. You never know when you'll wake up with a roach on your pillow. 2) I know those stilettos are fierce ladies but the walk to class is even fiercer; a sprained ankle isn't worth it. 3) Don't go into the bathroom without slippers. Just don't. 4) It truly serves to be a kiss ass in class. Your peers may not like you but they're not the ones grading you. 4) Claim your seat within the first two weeks at most. 5) Make the most out of this experience!

Alex

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c/o 2015

Have some tips to share or questions? email untouchmyhair@gmail.com

On That College Tip

The summer's over, school is starting again, and you're either entering your Junior or Senior year of high school, or you're a freshman in college. Some people ease right into the college groove.... others need a little help. We've asked college upperclassmen and graduates to share some advice, so throughout the year, we'll share tips from two people a week. Our first tip is coming from: Brandi

     1. Books before boys.

If the person you are with wants you to spend time with them instead of going to class drop him. 

After working your butt off to get in your college of choice don't throw it away for someone who doesn't care about your future. If he does not care about your future, encourage you to go to class and do what is right he does not care to have a future with you.

     2. Protect your reputation

Some of the relationships you form in college will follow you into your career. Don't make life harder by creating a hill by having a bad reputation that you will have to overcome later.

     3. no dating until your 3rd semester.

Use ur 1st year to learn the lay of the land, learn who's who and get that GPA up as high as possible.

     4. go to all your classes.

     You've worked too hard to waste any opportunity.

     5. stay focused and find someone to hold you accountable for your goals

College is where you prepare your character and hone your craft don't miss it.

Have some tips to share or questions? email untouchmyhair@gmail.com

Blessings and a T-Shirt

About a week or so ago, I received my 'UnTouchable' T-shirt that I designed. I was so impatient when I ordered it, I almost went for a walk, just to show people. But I told myself to chill out.

This Friday I had my chance to show out. I was so excited! I couldn't wait to go out and stick my chest out so people could look. I went with my mom to get some groceries and to treat ourselves to some cupcakes. While we were sitting on a bench outside, eating our cupcakes, this lady walks past us, and my mom says "Hey I like your hair!" the lady looks at us and smiles and was like "Hiii I wanted to say something to you guys but I didn't want to bother you!" She tells us that she has a natural hair salon a few doors down, and that she makes natural products.

 My mom and I of course get really excited and she asks if we're going to be there for a minute so she can run upstairs to get a couple cards to give to us. When she comes back, my mom is like, "Lauren, stand up and show her your shirt!" She tells me she likes it, and I tell her that I'm a natural hair blogger and I focus on natural hair care, styles, tips, and I also do hair. That sparks another wave of excitement with us and the next 10 minutes are filled with us exchanging info about ourselves and our businesses (also about cupcakes) and I find out that she needs natural stylists in her shop!

YESSSS! Hopefully I'll be in a shop soon then, and will move on to the next level in this journey. Y'all don't understand how excited I've been this weekend just off of those 10 minutes

Make sure you visit her website and support her! because just LOOKING at her products are enough to make you want to throw your money at her:

Store: http://silkpaperflower.storenvy.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/silkpaperflower

Marley Loc extentions over Locs pic tutorial

1.) First I separate the loc that I'm gonna work on from the rest and tied the rest of the locs back.
2.) Second, I sprayed some water and aloe Vera juice on the loc. Don't drench it, give it just enough to give it some moisture, like a mist.
3.) I used some Jamaican castor oil so give it some extra water and seal it in. Since the shaft of my loc is gonna be hidden from any moisture for a while.
4.) I created a loop with one strand of the Marley hair.
5.) I attached the loop to my hair and braided it until there was no more of the loc left.
6.) When there was no more of the loc left to braid I separated on side of the marley hair in two and braided it to what ever length I desired.

Product Review: Cassandra's Hair Potion

*I am not being paid for this review in any way. Guarantee to tell the truth, the whole truth, nothing but the truth so help me God*

SO. Let me tell y'all about my new favorite product: Cassandra's Hair Potion.
Let me start off by saying that I have 3C and 4A hair with a splash of 3B in my 'kitchen'. My hair soaks up oil then acts as if I've never fed it before, so along with conditioning and protein treatments, I either have to moisturize every other day, or put heavier products in my hair to maintain moisture. I went on etsy.com to find some new products to share with y'all (and also shine some light on lesser known businesses), and I came across Cassandra's Hair Potion's page. The picture of the Extreme Moisturizing Cream looked so thick, and creamy, and I HAD to try it, so I immediately emailed her.

Ms. Cassandra was more than willing to share a sample, and I had it in my mailbox in a day. It was very well packaged; I was expecting little tiny jars, but I was blessed with plenty to try. the products came in a thick padded envelope inside another box.  I received Peppermint Bliss, Yummy Gumball, and Strawberry Delight, and a Peppermint Hair Mist.

 

The moisturizer comes in 4 oz ($7) and 8 oz ($12) size jars and 5 different fragrances. I tried the mist and Peppermint Bliss Moisturizer. It's very smooth and thick, and melts fast when you rub it in your hands, and the mist soothes your scalp and stimulates. It has Shea butter, Kokum butter, Cocoa Butter, Coconut oil, Glycerin, Olive butter, Essential oil, and Fragrance oil.

You can use it on wet, or dry hair, and a little goes a LONG way. I tested this moisturizer and hair mist on both my mama's hair and my own. Her hair is more coarse and thick, and it still worked GREAT, and with hair split in 4 sections, I really only need about a quarter size of moisturizer per section.

I prefer spraying or wetting my hair first, to make sure it penetrates, but if I put it in dry hair, I won't have to worry about my hair feeling weird and greasy. It still moisturizes. I only moisturized my hair twice last week, and I honestly really didn't have to, but only did it because i re-flatwisted my hair, so basically I gotta break my habit. My twist out curls are light, bouncy, silky, and smooth.

I love this moisturizer better than using Shea Butter. I'm going to be a regular customer. If you're having issues with keeping your hair moisturized, you should definitely try Cassandra's Hair Potion a try. All the ingredients work together to make you and your hair fall in love, and you can tell that she loves what she does, and puts a lot of love and care into her products.

I asked Ms. Cassandra a few questions so you can get acquainted with her:

How long have you been natural?

About 2 years. Because I didn’t big chop, I don’t have an exact date. As my natural hair grew, I gradually cut the relaxer out. The main reason I went natural is because I wanted my daughters to see the beauty of their own natural hair. I couldn’t expect to show them how to appreciate their own hair, while I had chemicals in mine.

How did you get into the natural hair business?

My daughters have allergies and sensitive skin. Many hair products contain ingredients that my daughters are allergic to, such as mango. Other store-bought products turn my daughters’ skin into a bumpy, itchy nightmare. Products that use chemicals as preservatives and to add heavy fragrances were particularly problematic. Hunting for products became a full-time job – so I decided to make my own. When I would make hair my hair potion for my family, I would also give it out to friends and family. After a while, my friends suggested that I should make it available to others. My labor of love to find a perfect product that would give my girls gorgeous hair without itchy skin became Cassandra’s Hair Potion.
What makes your products unique and special?

What makes Cassandra’s Hair Potion: Extreme Moisturizing Cream unique:

·         Water is not the main ingredient

·         It’s made of natural butters and oils

·         Every ingredient used can be easily pronounced and is recognizable

·         No harsh chemicals

·         No Parabens

·         Helps hair retain moisture

·         Adds shine

·         No alcohol

·         No preservatives

·         Also a great body moisturizer

Where do you get your inspiration for your business?

My daughters inspired me initially. I wanted to create something that would work well with their hair. Then, as I began to hear and read more about other people going natural, I also became inspired by their stories.

Advice/message for new naturals?

There is a huge learning curve in learning what products and hair styles work for best for your hair. Don’t be afraid to experiment and most importantly – enjoy the journey and the experience. I had no idea what a joy it would to understand and work with my natural hair.

Example of product use

I love braid outs. I love how this technique gives a uniformed pattern to my curls while elongating my hair. It’s a style that works for any occasion.
I achieve my braid out by:
1. Separating my hair into sections. I create sections as I go. The amount of hair in section, depends on the desired look. Smaller sections give a more defined look. The bigger the section the less defined it will be. I usually have 12 braids total.
2. Dampen the section just created with Peppermint Hair Mist. Very important that the hair is not wet, but damp. Wet hair will take a longer time to dry.
3. Detangle the section with a wide-tooth comb and/or a Denman brush.
4. I apply Cassandra’s Hair Potion: extreme Moisturizing Cream as my sealant using about a dime-sized amount. Use less or more depending on hair.
5. Comb the cream through the hair.
6. Braid the section.
7. Make another section.
8. Repeat steps above until all hair is braided.

Product sites
website: www.cassandrashairpotion.com 
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hairpotioncassandras
tumblr: http://cassandras-hair-potion.tumblr.com/

Available for sale at:
* Amazon
* Etsy
* Ebay

Never-ending Hair Journey, Part II

I cut my hair in October of 2011, halfway through my first semester in college.  It was a big decision, but I decided to get it over with then because I did not have the patience for two textures.

 

In the beginning, I did a lot of wash-and-go's while my hair was still pretty short.  As it grew out, I began braiding it.

 

And braiding some more.

 

And some more.

 

I became obsessed with braiding.  Braiding was fun.  I loved how creative I could be with my styles and to this day challenge myself to try styles that no one else is wearing at the moment.  However, braiding was also necessary--at least I felt it was early on--because of my inability to style my own hair at that length and the fact that my mother hated my hair in a TWA.  Braiding it distracted her from my natural hair and kept the negative comments at bay until the next time I took the braids out.

 

My hair has grown significantly longer in the past almost 2 years since I cut it, but reflecting on the journey to natural hair, I feel that even now, two and a half years post-relaxer, I am still transitioning.

 

I've made the major transition from processed to natural hair, but I'm still not content with my hair. I mean, don't get me wrong, I do love my curls, but I'm ready for it to be longer, for my fro to be bigger and bushier.  For that reason, I still treat my hair like I'm transitioning, keeping it in braids or under a wig most of the time.

 

Although we don't typically call it transitioning, I feel that if you are taking steps to any type of hair goal, you are TRANSITIONING.  Even if you've been natural your entire life and are changing your habits to reap some different results with your hair, until you reach that goal, you are transitioning. 

 

That's why I say that I'm on a never-ending hair journey.  Our hair is so special…  It's like it's living its own life up there on top of our heads.  Going natural is not the end of that journey.  It's not for me, and for the health of your hair, I hope your journey doesn't stop there either.

--JoAnn

Never-ending Hair Journey

My own hair journey started out with little thought or planning. Or maybe it's because I wasn't very vain in the first place, so I wasn't too worried about what my hair was looking like. Either way, my decision to transition wasn't life-changing or noteworthy. I never had super long hair to begin with so it wasn't significant enough to go making a YouTube video about, or even worth some super long blog post about it.

 

Before I started transitioning, I noticed that a lot of my friends had been transitioning for a while and were just starting to show off their natural hair.  I thought their hair was absolutely gorgeous.  And I thought my own thinned-out, relaxed hair was not too cute.  Especially given that I was still recovering from hair loss as a result of multiple bad chemical burns, my hair looked a hot mess, to put it simply.

 

At the turn of the new year, after experimenting with cutting my own hair to see what it would feel like--to see if I was one of those girls who feels so attached to her hair that she would be devastated to cut it--I finally decided it would be in the best interest of my hair to go natural.  Of course, I went and got a relaxer a week later to please my mother, since she hated the idea of going natural and I myself wasn't firm enough in my conviction to stand up to her and avoid a perm.  However, after that last relaxer, I finally made up my mind for sure that I never wanted to relax my hair again.

 

Okay, so here's the actual transitioning story:

 

I transitioned for 9 months--January to October.  I had no technique to it.  I just got my hair done when my mom started complaining that I looked a mess and had something important coming up.  Given the time period, those special events were my high school graduation party and going away to college, so in between those events, I didn't really try too hard to manage my hair and treat all special and stuff like most naturals and transitioners try to do.  Toward the end of October, when taking out a set of braids, on a whim I just decided to big chop. I knew my mom would kill me if I did it at home, so while away at school I just did it.  And it felt so liberating!

 

I cut my processed hair off, but it doesn't end there!  I'll return tomorrow with part 2 of my never-ending hair journey.

--JoAnn

Daily Regime

Hello UntouchMyHair readers! Okay I have been SUPERR busy trying to get financial aid and other things ready to start my senior year at Florida A&M ! Yayy! Okay so, I would like to discuss with you guys the products I use almost everyday and how I use them! I would also like to give you all a quick run down of my weekly wash schedule and everyday regime.

REGIME: 

I style my hair every night either two strand twist, bantu knots, flat-twist or I will put flix-rods in them. I wash my hair everyWednesday- the first three Wednesdays of the month I will co-wash with my hair with Tresemme Naturals Silicone Free Conditioner or Giovanni 50:50 Balanced Hydrating Calming Conditioner and the last Wednesday I will wash with Shea Moisture Raw Shea Butter Moisture Retention Shampoo then I will Deep Condition using a homade deep conditioner ofHoney, Sugar Free/Plain Yogurt, Your favorite Leave-in (If you want to turn this deep conditioner into a protein conditioner add a raw egg to the mixture). I will leave the deep conditioner in for 30 minutes with a plastica shower cap and towel over my head then rinse out, then I will style after. 

STYLING:

Depending on how much energy I have, I will section my hair in four equal parts using Goody Ouchless Hairbands or clips. I apply a leave-in conditioner to each section then I will detangle using a wide teeth comb or denman brush, being gentle with the ends of my hair. I will seal my hair with either Unrefined Virgin Coconut Oil, Castor Oil or Africa's Best Herbal Oil (My Favorite!!). I will allow my hair to dry a little because If I style it right away my hair will still be wet in the morning, then frizz will come and we don't want that! Once it's dryed a little I will style my hair whatever way I like using a little Eco- Styling Gel. I put on my satin scarf and in the morning put a little Coconut oil in my hair then set my hair.

PRODUCTS:

 Shampoo:  

Shea Moisture Raw Shea Butter Moisture Retention Shampoo

Conditioner:

Tresemme Naturals Silicon Free Conditioner

Giovanni 50:50 Balance Hydrating Calming Conditioner

Leave-In's/Moisturizers:

Garnier Fructis Sleek & Shine Intensely Smooth Leave In Conditioner

Cantu Shea Butter Leave In Conditioning Repair Cream

Homemade Leave In in Spray bottle (Water, EVOO, Vitamin E Oil, Your favorite conditioner)

Spray Bottle's (EVOO/Water, Aloe Vera Juice/Water, or just plain water)

Oils:

Extra Virgin Olive Oil (EVOO)

Unrefined Coconut Oil

Castor Oil

Africa's Best Herbal Oil

Gels:

Eco-Styling Gel

Ampro Olive Oil Gel

Curls Passion Fruit Control Paste

-Toni

What is good hair?

Is that your hair? Can I touch it? How did you get your hair so curly? Going natural isn't for everyone. I would go natural but my hair is nappy. You have some good hair!

These are a few statements many natural haired women hear from relaxed women. What is good hair exactly? If this was a topic of discussion among a group of friends the answers that you may receive could range anywhere from 'bi-racial hair' to 'long hair'. Which are typically associated together. In our society it seems that 'good hair' is measured in how loose your curl pattern is, when in all actuality it is measured in how healthy your hair is.

It piqued my interest when I noticed that the average person who has returned to their natural state is more concerned with their hair growing long than they are with their hair being healthy.  One of the main reasons why newly naturals are so confused about their natural hair and sometimes discouraged is because although there are a variety of women with different hair textures w/ helpful hair blogs, they all seem to chase after the same goal--perfect curl definition. 

Twist outs, braid outs, flat twists, Bantu knots the list can go on.  How many times have you had an amazing twist out result one day only to be discouraged the next morning because you didn't feel like 'retwisting' your hair? Do you manipulate your curl pattern because you like the achieved style or because you aren't comfortable with your own texture? 

I'm not into the whole hair typing thing. Although they can be similar, no two head of curls are the same. Some women will actually be offended and ready to fight if you classify them in the 4 category. You'd think they just had a relaxer and got pushed in a public pool. Which is the strangest thing to me. We are supposed to be helping build one another up. Not placing different burdens with the same weight. Accepting your hair the way it is, is the only way that you are going to be comfortable being natural and truly enjoy this journey. 

-Piper

Good Bad and Ugly

I can remember sitting in the barber shop. The room filled w/ men, the only exception me and my mother. It actually had the atmosphere of your typical salon just masculine. I sat there listening to the men discuss football, girls and shoes while I waited to be called next to the chair. I sat there examining the man my friend was shaping up. He was a little cutie. Especially with his fresh cut fade. Which of course made me wonder how I'd look after I got up from that very same chair. Would I even still look like a girl? Maybe this is a mistake my hair doesn't look that bad. I say looking into a mirror hanging on the wall. Oh yes it does honey. I admit to myself.  

Finally it was my turn. I sat in the chair looking at my damaged choppy looking hair. There's no point in trying to save the length. My friend Steve was so excited that I had decided to go natural. He's been telling me that a short style would look great on me. His friendly way of telling me my hair is fried perhaps? I half engaged in conversation with him while I sat turned away from the mirror and he took a pair of clippers to my head. I just knew I was going to look like a boy! I'm 5'10 w/ side burns. Ugh. I felt so embarrassed being watched by literally every guy in the barber shop. 

When he finally finished and turned me around the girl I saw in the mirror frightened me. It was definitely me but this could not be my head. This little fuzz ball. I looked like a boy. The compliments coming from my mom and Steve as well as some bystanders floated through one ear out of the other. The only thing my mind was focusing on was this drag queen reflecting back in the mirror. Tears crept into my eyes. What did I just do? 

Steve looked me dead in the eye and told me that I looked beautiful and that my hair cut was bold. 'you're going to get a lot of attention girl so you better own it.'  After I left the shop I felt like everyone was looking at me and they were. I got a lot of compliments on my TWA ! I actually felt really pretty. I still had some insecurity of course. I never really got used to not being able to style my hair. It was nice though. . .while it lasted. Not having to do anything to it, simply wet it and call it a day. 

Many natural say that when they BC'd they were in a state of shock. A shock indeed it was, but it was the beginning of something wonderful. 

I know a lot of people choose to go the big chop route. Many transition. Whatever route you chose to go natural it won't be easy. Its a learning experience. I guess that's why they call this a journey. 

Tell me about your transition into natural hair!

-Piper

Loc Hair Care: Simplified

Loc Hair Care:  Simplified.

                The decision to go natural and later to loc your hair, is not a decision that one enters into lightly.  There are many things to consider when you decide to loc your hair; what products do I use, what size do I want my locs to be, will I use a loctician, what does free form mean?  A person can easily become overwhelmed trying to navigate through all of the information that is available on locs.  While everyone's journey is their own, there are two things that I feel are universal truths; one, you have to figure out what works best for YOUR hair and two, healthy locs are achieved by maintaining clean locs and moisturizing.  There are a million and one videos, blogs, and websites dedicated to loc hair care, product reviews, and tips.  I realize that I'm pretty much a "baby dread" but I have come to the realization that loc hair care has become too convoluted and difficult.  In a nutshell, water, a sulfate and paraben-free shampoo, and oils will be your best friends. 

Water

                Water is probably one of the most important things you will need to maintain a healthy set of locs.  When water is applied to your hair it is absorbed by the cuticle layer of your hair strand.  The cuticle layer is the outermost layer of the hair shaft and our hair's first line of defense.   Water provides the means for the necessary hydrogen bonding between hair fibers to occur that is essential for the maintenance of hair strength, elasticity and integrity. Without this, the hair becomes thin, frizzy, and much more prone to permanent damage and breakage.  In my opinion, it is equally important to increase your daily water intake into your body.  It not only aids in improving bodily functions, maintaining healthy skin, but also provides moisture to your locs from the inside out. 

Shampoo

I know you might be wondering "what is a sulfate and paraben-free shampoo?"  If you are like me and are fully embracing all things natural ever since you transitioned to Team Dread, then using things free of as many chemicals as you can is of huge importance.  Parabens and sulfates are chemicals used in many shampoos today.  Parabens act as a preservative that inhibits bacteria growth, therefore prolonging the shelf life of products.  Parabens contribute hair problems such as the deterioration of the hair follicles caused by the removal of the protective cuticle.  Parabens have also been linked to breast cancer.  Sulfates attract and then break dirt on the hair and scalp.  However, studies have shown that sulfates have been linked to eye damage, hair loss, hair thinning, deteriorates the hair follicle, and slows hair growth.  Sulfates have also been found to be toxic and a skin irritant.  (For more information, see http://www.topsulfatefreeshampoo.com/why-use-paraben-free-and-sulfate-free-shampoo/).  As we have already seen the importance of water in the strengthening of your hair shaft and follicles, it would be counterproductive to use products containing chemicals that aid in the deterioration and damage of the very hair follicles we are trying to strengthen.  

Oils

                I have used a few products since loc'ing my hair that promised to be natural and loaded with natural oils.  In reality, these products are full of chemicals and the natural oil in the product is virtually non-existent.  Why use a product containing the oil when we can go straight to the source and use the actual oil?  Oils are important because once the water has been absorbed by the hair, oils act to seal in the moisture from the water.  Oils also give your hair shine, aid in hair growth by stimulating the scalp, and keeps hair from becoming dry and brittle.  The four most important oils for natural hair and loc'ers are Tea Tree Oil, Coconut Oil, Olive Oil, and Grapeseed Oil.  (For more information, see http://blackgirllonghair.com/2012/06/4-cheap-oils-that-work-incredibly-well/).  Tea tree oil is strong and it is recommended that you mix a few drops with water prior to applying to your hair.  Tea tree oil can be used right after shampooing or as part of a daily spray/mist.  Tea tree is my favorite oil because it is antifungal, antibacterial, and antiviral.  Tea tree oil also sooths itchy scalp, eliminates dandruff, and unblocks hair follicles.  Coconut and Olive Oil can also be used to moisturize and condition your scalp as part of a hot oil treatment.  There is no need to spend unnecessary money on hot oil treatments full of unrecognizable chemicals when you can simply heat some coconut and/or olive oil and apply to your hair directly.    Grapeseed oil is high in vitamin E which also aids in hair growth and healthy hair.  When purchasing oils, make sure the oils are unrefined, virgin/extra virgin, and/or cold pressed.  Cold pressed oil is obtained through pressing and grinding fruit or seeds.  The temperature must not rise above 120°F (49°C) for any oil to be considered cold pressed. Cold pressed oils retain all of their flavor, aroma, and nutritional value.  These oils are not only good for your hair but have the added benefit of improving the look and appearance of your skin.   

-Shaun Scott

LIFE BEFORE NATURAL

                As a little girl, my hair was always a "problem".  I don't remember a time when I didn't have something in my hair; a relaxer, Jheri curl, sew-ins, braids.  I was always trying to cover up the naps and create the illusion that I had long luxurious hair.  In reality, my hair was damaged, thin, and unhealthy.  My hair was so thin and unhealthy that when I got sew-ins, my hair was too thin to cover up the tracks.  My mother took me to numerous hair dressers trying to get my hair to grow or figure out a way to tame my super coarse hair.  Never was it suggested that I should be my natural self.  My natural hair was something I was ashamed of and as much confidence as I tried to exude, deep down I didn't feel pretty.  In college I went through the phase of getting my hair cut short, which I liked at first, but still required all day appointments at the hair dresser to get a relaxer and maintain the cut.  In addition to that, the daily maintenance of a short cut that needed to be curled added the extra stress of heat.  As I have gotten older I realize that while I love to look good, it has to be with the least amount of effort possible.  Therefore, the short cut eventually lost its appeal and I was back to looking for something else to cover up my hair.  

                My last hair style was what finally made me decide to go natural.  The style was super cute and I stuck with it for a little over a year (which is really long for me).  It was the short hair cut style that Rihanna was famous for (shaved on one side, longer on the other side with a longer bang).  Even though the style was cute, it drove my self esteem even lower because in order to pull off the style, I STILL needed a little bit of weave in the front.  Who needs weave for a hair CUT?  I had had enough.  I decided that as soon as my hair grew out enough for braids, that I was going natural.  I didn't know what I was going to do with my natural hair, but I decided that I would figure that out later.  I began getting braids in February 2009 and wore them without fail until September 2011.  Each time I got my hair re-braided, I cut the relaxer out of my hair little by little.  I was so amazed at how my hair was growing.  There were a few times that I tried to wear my afro out but being new to natural hair, I was unaware of shrinkage.  I tried to blow my afro out to make it bigger but the heat began to damage my hair again so I went back to the braids.  Finally, I decided, you know what? I'm not going to worry about how short my hair looks or what people will say, I'm not wearing braids, weaves, or anything.  I'm going to get locs.  Getting locs was THE BEST decision of my life.   I love my hair.  I love the low maintenance and the carefree feeling my locs give me.  I have been loc'd for almost 2 years and this is the longest and healthiest my hair has ever been.   My only regret is that I didn't do it sooner and avoid a lot of the turmoil I went through trying to understand and accept my authentic self.   

-Shaun Scott